Why Can't Geographical bachelors, Non-IETs Live in single soldier housing?

I was told as a Soldier Re-enlisting for another six years that we would be provided single soldier quarters/housing while we are training by my retention NCO. When i got to this unit they immediately told those of us who are Non-IET that the only way that we would get single soldier barracks was if we were not in rolled in training but were actually stationed there. on top of that we are forced to live in the same barracks as the AIT soldiers. We are being treated like THEM! The command is always saying "There is no difference between you and those AIT soldiers". Like hell there is! They haven't been in for more than four years, they havent deployed for 15 months in Iraq and i am very sure I earned the right to be treated with respect and as an adult in this army.